Why the rebound relationship never works

While almost everyone recognizes the pitfalls of the rebound relationship, we seldom recognize the phenomena when it comes to our own relationships. We’re Johnny-on-the-spot when it comes to pointing it out to our friends, but when we end a relationship and quickly find a new love interest, the situation is suddenly different.

Your BFF says, ìHey, you do know that you’re making a pitiful attempt to replace Joe, right?î You gasp indignantly. ìWhy would you possibly think I’m so dumb as to fall for that old trick? John (the new guy) is who I’ve been looking for all of my life! He’s perfect! Now I see Joe for the insensitive, uncaring, egotistical maniac he always was! John’s not like that. He appreciates me for who I am.î Does this sound familiar? Your response smacks of the rebound relationship syndrome.

If Joe just dumped you, or even if you dumped him for good reason, suddenly you are faced with a void in your life.

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